You join your Romestead server by its address and port, from the multiplayer menu in the game. Both are on the address card on Overview, like forum.play.wilderack.com:28050. If the server has a password, the game asks for it when you connect.
Before you start
- Find the address and port. The port is the number after the colon on the address card. It’s picked for your server, so it isn’t Romestead’s usual
8050. - Update the game. Your game and the server must be on the same Romestead version.
- Play the normal version. If you switched to a beta branch in Steam, switch back. A beta game can’t join a server on the normal version.
Join by address and port
- Start Romestead and open Multiplayer.
- Choose to join a game, and pick or create a character.
- Open the option for joining by address. It may be labelled Advanced or LAN, depending on your version.
- Type the address in the address box, like
forum.play.wilderack.com, and the port in the port box, like28050. - Connect, and type the password if the game asks for it. Passwords are case-sensitive.
Steam Deck
Romestead runs on Steam Deck, and joining works the same way. Use the on-screen keyboard (Steam + X) to type the address and port.
No server browser
Romestead has no public list of servers. Only people you give the address and port to can find your server. Use a password anyway, in case the address gets shared further than you meant.
Server password
Set or change it in Settings, then restart the server. The new password only works after the restart.
By hand, it’s the Password value in config.json. An empty value means no password. See the config reference.
Joining wakes the server
Your server naps when nobody’s playing. Joining by address wakes it, usually in a couple of seconds. If the game gives up before the server is awake, connect again.
Friends can also open the wake link from the address card, play.wilderack.com/w/forum, to wake it before they start the game. The How to join card on Overview shows the same steps as this page.
Fewer disconnects than Steam hosting
When friends play on someone’s own game through Steam, the connection runs through Steam’s relay network. The developers say some groups get disconnected that way. They also say players who switched to a dedicated server and joined by IP saw those disconnects go away. Your server is that kind of setup.
Can’t connect?
- Check the port. Use the one on the address card, not
8050. - Check the version. If you see “Client version … is not compatible with server version …”, update the game. Restart Steam if no update shows.
- Wait for the server. After a restart or a long nap, give it a minute, then join again.
- Check the password. Ask the owner whether it changed.
More fixes are in Fix common Romestead server errors.
Questions
How do I join a Romestead server by IP?
Open Multiplayer, choose to join, pick a character, then open the option to join by address. Type the address and the port from the address card in their own boxes, then connect and enter the password.
Does a Romestead server show in a server list?
No. Romestead has no public server browser. Friends join with the address and port that you share.
Can I join a Romestead server from Steam Deck?
Yes. Romestead runs on Steam Deck, and you join a server the same way as on a Windows PC.
Sources we checked
- Message From Olympus 3 (connection issues)Beartwigs
- Hotfix 0.25.1_3 (version mismatch message)Beartwigs
- Romestead Dedicated Server Setup GuideRomestead Wiki
